If you experience painful sex or are a survivor of sexual assault, this info is particularly helpful. — “Most doctors, OBGYNs included, are not required to take human sexuality classes or trainings … As a result, many OBGYNs do not have specialized training and knowledge in pelvic pain and pleasure.” — Nicoletta Heidegger, MA, MEd, Sex Therapist When I began having sex, it was a painful experience.