In some cultures, the Goddess Isis was a Virgo. — Are you surprised to discover that the constellation Virgo, who today is synonymous with virginity, was originally a Goddess of birth and sexuality? By mapping Virgo’s celestial identity throughout the ages this fair maiden blossoms into a complex woman with a rich history. …

Ironically, 99% of all humans have had sex this way regardless of their sexual orientation. — Tribadism, or dry humping, is one of the first sex acts that humans gravitate towards as kids. Providing our younger selves with the first delicious taste of sexual stimulation. I know of many people who began their sexual journey by practicing tribadism with a pillow or stuffed animal. …

Vetted by scholars at Yale and Harvard. — Quarantine had just begun, and I clung to the two-week deadline with certainty. Surely, an entire civilization couldn’t remain closed for more than 14 days? As weeks stumbled into months, I searched the internet for positive ways to work on myself. I figured this was the best distraction from uncertainty. …

A simple shift that makes a big difference in life and sex. — “Oceans need not seek water.” — Dr. Jaiya John Look around you right now. In this present moment, what is bringing you pleasure? As a capitalist culture, we are taught that we’ll feel rewarded and fulfilled if we seek out pleasure. That there will come a point in this pursuit…

Join us Thursday, April 20 in Los Angeles for a live Q&A book signing and sensual yoga! — CLICK HERE FOR DETAILS & TICKETS Join sex scholar and bestselling author Nadège for a sensual yoga class (beginner friendly) designed to awaken your sexual subconscious followed by a live Q&A book signing for the SEXTROLOGY book! The SEXTROLOGY book helps you honor your desires and experience deeper intimacy. It can explain why you adore or…

What is the asexual spectrum? — I was a teenager when I learned about the Kinsey Scale, a 0–6 rating system that helps you identify if you lean heterosexual or homosexual. My classmates loved to jokingly rate each other, titillated by an excuse to discuss attraction. As a kid coming to terms with my queerness, this…

Healing also means taking responsibility for the role you play in your own suffering. — It struck me as I slid out of a bed that wasn’t mine — I think I enjoy feeling anxious. Anxiety is familiar, it’s stimulating, and despite the negative spiral that comes with it, I search for lovers that give me jitters. This phenomenon is called the mere exposure effect…

A former sex crime District Attorney and a body trauma specialist break down assault so you can start healing. — In a TEDx Talk about sexual shame, former District Attorney of Los Angeles Rene Martine shares how the majority of her court cases were about sex crimes. Martine recalls one of her more famous cases, involving a popular religious figure who molested a young boy. …

Number three is my favorite, but number four is essential. — “Pleasure is not a luxury it is a necessity.” — Dr. Nan Wise, neuroscientist & sex therapist Sex is a skill that involves the body and the brain. You need to work at it, especially when it comes to your mindset. …