Nadège
Sex Scholar who graduated from Berkeley. Wearing big earrings & talking about sex, spiritual growth, kink, + femininity. She/Her. www.pleasurescience.com

Whose pleasure are you prioritizing?

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Photo by Polina Kovaleva.


Vetted by scholars at Yale and Harvard.

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Photo by fizkes. Image licensed by Canva.


Ironically, 99% of all humans have had sex this way regardless of their sexual orientation.

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Photo by Bruno van der Kraan.

Regardless of one’s gender identity, tribadism can be a satisfying and empowering sex act.


What “being a Gentleman” can look like in a world of feminism, #MeToo, and getting laid.

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Photo by Stefan Stefancik.


Inside my journey to feel sexually normal.

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Photo by Yohann LIBOT.


Why do we feel embarrassed for something our bodies do naturally?

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Photo by Polina Zimmerman.


The science of warm water.

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Photo by Tim Samuel.

Studies have actually found that showering with a lover helps to reduce stress. And we all know that orgasms also relieve stress too. With that extra dose of oxytocin, stress hormones are reduced. Combine the two, and that’s some serious levels of calm.

— Mariah Freya, sex coach & co-founder of Beducated


The neuroscience of pleasure.

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Photo by Anete Lusina.


Sophie Xeon made new rules and became a role model for millions.

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SOPHIE via The Fader / Charlotte Wales / Transgressive.


With methods recommended by Doctors.

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Photo by Alex Green.

“About 30% of women and 7% of men reported pain during vaginal intercourse events, and […] 72% of women and 15% of men reported pain during anal intercourse events […] Large proportions of Americans do not tell their partner when sex hurts.” — The Journal of Sexual Medicine

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